Intelligence is a good factor. I love a good sense.
Someone that likes to party and be respectful. But I like to have an ongoing sexual relationship because I like getting really comfortable with another clubs watching sex person and experimenting with kinkier sex as time goes on. While I'm not into taking action shots, I would be very interested in taking pictures of the right woman on her own phone while she's dressed up so rather impressively. I say figure out what feels right and what makes everyone comfortable then go with that.